Last time we spoke about the first time hearing your voice through a microphone. So, this time we’ll concentrate on first time live on stage.
Preparation
Preparation is (at least) 90% of success! If every band member has done his/her work and if the band rehearsals went ok then you have nothing to be afraid of (Except of the unknown, but you can’t prepare for that, can you?!).
Make a list of everything that you need for the gig and don’t forget some extra spare parts like cables, picks, sticks, etc. You should reduce the stress over the “small stuff” and completely focus on your big night. Take something to drink and some snacks with you just in case the venue manager forgets to provide that for you. Some extra clothes are also a good idea ’cause you never know if it’s gonna be cold or hot in there…
Arrival
Try to arrive there early. Getting to the gig only one hour earlier means a huge difference when you set up your gear – especially for the first time! You don’t have the routine yet, you still search for the best spot for individual band members and their gear and so on. That all takes time and you have to take it. So, an extra hour or two will save you a lot of nerves…
Soundcheck
Some people use soundchecks for some additional rehearsals. Well, I’m not a big fan of that. If you don’t know your stuff by now, this one rehearsal won’t save you ass, trust me! It can even make things worse if it doesn’t go as planned. You can lose your confidence, the band becomes insecure and your whole evening is in jeopardy. That’s bad!
My advice would be: take your best song and play the hell out of it! Do some tweaks if necessary, make it sound the best you can and that’s it! Soundcheck done…
3, 2, 1, go…
Take some time just for yourself before the gig. At least 30 minutes or so. Try to build up a routine. Warm up your voice, your instrument, fingers, your body. Try to visualise how much fun you’re going to have, how you’re going to enjoy being there on stage with your band buddies, entertaining the audience. It will be a blast!
And if there’s a funny feeling in your stomach: that’s not fear! That’s excitement! There’s a huge difference! If you wouldn’t have a clue what you should do on stage, then you should be AFRAID. But if you’re prepared and know your stuff, then you’re EXCITED to show the people what you got to offer…
P.S.: And if you come on the stage and you still feel scared to death there’s still this last emergency exit: just imagine everyone in the audience naked… 🥴
Good luck!
